Self Control

I don't know who i can deal with better, a cheating boyfriend or one who has absolutely no self control. I don't understand why people cannot deal with their emotions. Early last week i had to deal with a friend of mine who had issues and just had no freaking self control.The little nice discussion ended nasty.And guess what apologies came later. Why do people not spare themselves the time of apologising later by just having a little self control?Emotions are very powerful but words are even more powerful.You can always say you are sorry for the things you do but you can never erase the things said. They become scars. Scars take time to heal. It could take days, weeks or months depending on the level of injury inflicted on the receiver's emotions.I was really shcoked to see the cute, handsome upcoming artist face public disapproval at his behavior. Alleged assault. Chris Brown and Rihanna, one of the celebirty couples have had their own share of Bobbi and Whitney moments and this time Chris decided to take his frustration or whatever was wrong with him at that moment out on her.I cannot judge his behavior because we all make mistakes but self control is essential in every relationship. Because of his lack of self control, he may lose Rihanna's friendship/love. He has lost his place with Wrigleys and now the public is begiining to see him as a beast. All this all because of one moment of madness. Poor Rihanna, i hope she wasn't beaten black and blue, Covergirl still needs her face on the cover of its magazine